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5 Reasons to fall in love with Tapas


If it was feasibly possible we would all just eat out every night, wouldn't we? or that just me?! I love every aspect of going out for food, from the social interactions to the delicious food itself, or maybe I just have a thing for being waited on. The most sociable meal I believe you can go out for is Tapas. Spanish food is positively delicious and the fact it's not frowned upon to order multiple dishes is a winner in my eyes. The hubby and I have loved Tapas for years, ever since we started dating it has been one of our go-to choices for a meal out and we are very rarely disappointed. Weirdly Tapas is the one meal that we always seem to have our deepest life/relationship conversations, is it the romantic setting and sharing of food? or just lots of red wine, who knows. 

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How to Survive a Breakup

It doesn't matter if you are 15 or 50, whether you have been together 2 months or 20 years, breakups are hard and they are personal to everyone. The old cliché of "time is a great healer" is fantastic, however, what the hell are you meant to do while that time is passing?§

So after a few conversations with my girlfriends, we have put together a few survival tips that we wish people had said to us when we have gone through breakups over the years. Remember though that breakups are not an exact science.

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10 Great TV Shows to Binge this Weekend


With the huge uprising of streaming services and catch up TV, it seems long gone are the days of watching an episode of your favourite show once a week. Since our new favourite shows are now all released at the same time or gathered together in one place it makes it so easy to say "just one more episode" and before you know it you have binged the whole season and you can't keep your eyes open at work. I have gathered together some of my favourites to give you some ideas if you are stuck with what to watch next.
The best things to look out for when picking a TV show to binge-watch is how many seasons there are? The last thing you want is to get addicted to something that has 10 seasons with 22 episodes each, you still need to function in the real world and eat food! Binging shorter shows has greater satisfaction when you finish them or even devastation that there are no more. Also, shorter seasons means you get to watch more shows and keep up to date with the water cooler conversations or however people interact these days (I'm always in the house binge-watching TV so I never talk to other humans!)


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The Alchemist Newcastle - You Will Be in Your Element


Newcastle city centre has had a major facelift in the last 5 years. I have always loved my city but for a long time it seemed very dated, and even though Newcastle has always been known as a great party/night out city, no big interesting brands had opened here in a long time. However we have noticed some incredible bars and fashion brands slowly popping up in the city centre in recent times, especially around the Grey's Monument area of town. The renovation of Monument Mall was the start of this renaissance, with the introduction of The Botanist cocktail bar, The White Company, Molton Brown, Hugo Boss and many more. Over the last few months, the entire Monument side of Eldon Square was revamped and opened as an amazing hub of restaurants and eateries. The newest and most anticipated addition to this is The Alchemist

Written by Kelly Hurst
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Sunday Dinner in Newcastle - Revolution Bar

Sunday Dinner in Newcastle - Revolution Bar

This really shouldn't be something I admit to, but I have never been in Revolution sober. I realised this when I walked into Revolution in Newcastle last Sunday and couldn't believe how beautiful the building was, this photo really doesn't do it justice. The architecture is incredible, however, this isn't something you really look at when you have had a few too many gins and you are fighting your way to the bar for a shot roulette! As much as I know you would all love to hear about my drunken escapades this post isn't about that; it is all about one of my favourite things in life, the infamous Sunday Dinner.
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What are the Benefits of Reflexology?

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I have always been intrigued about Reflexology even though I had no clue what it actually was or what it entailed. Someone touching your feet was pretty much my entire knowledge base on Reflexology, so I wanted to find out more.

For the past year or so I have had horrible stomach issues, partly due to lactose intolerance but mainly due to issues with stomach acid. I was given tablets from the doctors but I really wanted to find natural remedies to control these issues. I will have a post up soon all about the right foods to eat if you suffer from stomach issues so keep an eye out for that. 


benefits-of-reflexology-massage-feet-relaxationI found a reflexologist, Claire Gardner, on a #NorthEastHour twitter chat and decided to jump in feet first (pun intended) and book my first session of Reflexology. Claire specialises infertility which isn't something I am interested in right now, but it's good to know for the future. I have polycystic ovaries so even though we have no plans to start a family right now I might have issues in the future and it's fascinating what Claire can do around this subject, so if you have any concerns around fertility get in touch with her. She also works on newborns, elderly people, women and men.


What is Reflexology

Reflexology is a holistic therapy that has been around for centuries from ancient Chinese and Egyptian cultures, then being introduced into the Western World in 1913. In simple terms, there are particular reflex points on the feet that have been found to correspond and match other areas around the body. Your reflexologist will massage these points on your feet helping to minimise or even stop pain, illnesses or discomfort. The best place to look for the in's and out's of the reflexology is the Association of Reflexologists

This post will let you know all about my experience with Reflexology, how it helped me and how it could help you.

My First Session

I had done a little more research on Reflexology before my first session so even though I was nervous I was also excited to see if it could actually help my body by massaging pressure points on my feet. Claire is so lovely and instantly makes you feel very calm and relaxed with her soothing voice. I sat down on a chair covered in a soft fleece which felt amazing and Claire went through my initial consultations.

Claire asked me all about my health, sleeping habits, symptoms I was having and talked about different parts of the body and what I wanted to get out of the sessions. I let her know about my stomach issues and a few other things I was hoping would be improved by this treatment. 

After the consultation Claire reclined me in the chair I was sat in so my feet were slightly in the air. OMG, I need one of these chairs at home, it was the comfiest chair ever. She then put a pillow under my legs and covered me in another fluffy fleece, turned the lights down, put on some spa music and I was in heaven. 

I was a little apprehensive about someone touching my feet as I have the most ticklish feet ever, but the pressure is very different so this was never an issue. Claire starts by wiping your feet with a wet wipe, which in itself is very soothing, she then covers one foot with a towel while she works on the other. The techniques she uses are hard to describe but it feels like a full body massage for your feet. I made a joke about how I could just fall asleep, which transpired was not a joke as this is what I did at every session. 

After an hour of intense relaxation, Claire sits you up or wakes you up in my case, and goes and gets you a glass of water. She told me how important it is to drink lots of water after a session as all the pressure points stimulated could cause headaches after your first session. Claire then runs through what she learned about your body during the session, in my case she felt a lot of imbalance with my neck and upper back which I understood as I have terrible shoulder pain due to years of office work and bad posture. She advised there was a definite issue in my stomach and digestive system and that I was dehydrated, I found it fascinating what she could tell from my feet. The true test for me was if these issues were going to get better with more sessions. Little did I know that more sessions would fix things I didn't even realise I had an issue with...


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Sessions 2 - 5

The day after the first session I did feel like I had actually had a full body massage, it was extremely strange in a good way and I was excited to go back so I set up weekly sessions with Claire. 
Each session would start the same, a quick chat about how I felt after the last session and how I was feeling that day. Sometimes I would go in with a headache so this made Claire aware to not put too much pressure on my brain (which is in the big toe apparently). I tried my best to stay awake so I could see the types of movements and techniques she was using but my body just gave in to the relaxation. That is one thing I will say if you have no medical need to see a reflexologist just do it for an hour of bliss that isn't as messy as a full body massage but gives you all the same benefits in my opinion. 

The day after each session I definitely felt a spike in energy and, as I said previously, less tense in my back and shoulders. In one session without even telling Claire she knew I had been suffering from a sore throat; during the 4 weeks, I'd had my treatments I felt like I was getting the starting symptoms of a cold that just never fully showed, I think this is due to the Reflexology stopping it from happening. 

Results

I thought I would break down my results into the different areas I definitely felt an improvement in. Some people are pessimistic about Reflexology and think it just has a placebo effect, even if this is the case I know that the following areas of my health dramatically improved after the 5 weeks of treatments:

Sleep

Claire nearly fell off her chair when I told her my usual bedtime is between midnight and 1am. I have always been a night owl and I will never change that I don't think, but I used to struggle with falling asleep no matter what time I went to bed. After 5 weeks of Reflexology, I did notice that I was falling asleep much quicker and staying asleep all night until my alarm went off. This was giving me more energy as I was getting a much better quality of sleep.

PMT

This was something I didn't even realise would be helped with Reflexology. My husband Thom will 100% testify to the fact that I get awful PMT; I get so angry and irritable, it was becoming a real issue but I wasn't sure if it was just due to my PCOS. However, while I was having Reflexology I noticed a massive difference in this and I mean massive, to the point where I didn't even realise I was due on my period as I had had no PMT. It was amazing and I can only contribute this to having Reflexology.

Toilet habits & digestion

This may be TMI but I am all about sharing on this blog, lol! My stomach issues were the main reason I wanted to try Reflexology, after about 3 sessions I noticed I was going to the toilet more regularly and was in less pain. Claire noticed this getting better as well over each session, I would feel less bloated and even my heartburn felt like it was getting better as I was relying less on Rennies or Gaviscon. I was really happy about this as it felt like it was just never going to feel better.

Stress / Anxiety

These days I do get mild anxiety, shortness of breath or that panicky feeling I can't explain a lot less then I use to get but still it isn't nice. Just by having these sessions I have felt calmer and less uptight. This is probably due to the relaxing nature of Reflexology however it is known that the toxins released by Reflexology can combat stress, anxiety and depression.

Energy

My energy levels definitely increased after a session and the days following, obviously Reflexology can't be a cure for me having little energy due to late nights or eating the wrong food but it gave me a boost to want to then eat a bit better, get some exercise and a little more sleep.

Hydration

Reflexology can not rehydrate your body, however, if Claire mentioned in a session I was dehydrated it made me want to drink more water. I am terrible at remembering to drink water but I think someone actually telling you "you are dehydrated" makes you remember. I also wanted to see if she noticed the difference and she did.

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In conclusion, I am so happy I discovered Reflexology and that I did more than just one session. It is cheaper than a full body massage and even though you would have it more regularly the health benefits it brings can really change your life and I totally stand by that from my own experience. I will be continuing with sessions. 



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My 6 Weeks Transformation with Elite


So after my very well-intentioned Get Healthy with me - Losing My Relationship Weight post back in January my motivation to lose weight pretty much stopped when I pressed the publish button. Like I said in that post I put weight on really easily and I know I can lose it easily if I put the effort in.

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Northern Goldsmiths - The Perfect Place for that Special Piece of Jewellery


Obviously When Northern Goldsmiths found out I was on the hunt for my wedding ring they generously put on a lavish champagne reception and kindly refurbished the amazing building as well, just for me.

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What I Would Tell My 14-year-old Self


How many of us would love to go back in time and tell our younger selfs a few things, maybe just to give your young self some hope or to knock some sense into your young self? 

After finding an old diary of mine from 1999 - 2002, I thought I would write a few honest points of what I would tell 14-year-old Kelly.

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A Vintage Boutique in the Heart of Newcastle



Newcastle really is an amazing place to live; sometimes I don’t think I am as grateful as I should be for living in such a beautiful city. Newcastle has so much to offer from the big metropolitan city life with the big brand shops and amazing restaurants to the little side street personal one-off shops and cafes. One place in Newcastle that I love is a vintage boutique called The Yesterday Society which is in the Grainger Market in the centre of town. 

I went along recently and interviewed the owner Rachael and found out more about 
The Yesterday Society.

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The Garden Station - Afternoon Tea Baby Shower in the Countryside


My beautiful best friend Lindsey is due to have her second baby anytime now and having had a difficult pregnancy and little Lewis to run around after I thought she deserved a nice relaxing day. Lindsey didn't want any big fuss made, just her closest friends together having some afternoon tea.
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